Proverbs 15:1, “A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.”
This verse is another example of the fact that God gives us good, practical advice in His Word. Your first reaction may be ‘Duh’, of course He does, He knows what is best. But, we need to incorporate this good advice into our lives and follow it. That is the part that we often fail to do.
A soft answer is a quiet and controlled response to whatever is going on around you. God is not saying that you may not have a point that you desire to get across. He is saying HOW you do it is of utmost importance to your testimony and to the response that you receive.
A soft answer defuses a situation. It can quiet things down. Often we answer harshly and quickly and anger will escalate on every ones part. God is telling us not to speak loudly even if we are upset. Anger not only makes the blood pressure go up, but it also seems to make the volume of our voices get louder. God is telling us NO. This is not pleasing to Him and it always leads to more anger.
Our goal needs to be – ALWAYS – answer softly and in love. (This can happen with God’s help!)
It is encouraging to me when God points out areas in my life that will benefit me if I follow His instructions. Read the Bible, know the Bible, and follow the Bible, it will make your life happier and more fruitful for the Lord.
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